Hey, I know times are tough, but if you make the foolhardy decision to hand out cash to the guys in your wedding party, then your not likely to become too popular guy. Sure, everyone can use a little extra cash these days, but that’s not really the point of buying gifts for the boys. As much as it is a stereotype to say it, this is a perfect example of “it’s the thought that counts”. Groomsmen gifts are meant to be a token of appreciation for your buddies that have stuck with your through thick and thin. I mean, c’mon, these guys are probably getting dressed up in a monkey suit on a perfectly nice summer day, when they could be doing a hundred other things.
Not only are they making a sacrifice the day of the wedding, they’ve probably been with you for years, and know you at least as well as the bride does. Though, I understand in a totally different way. My point here, is put a little bit of thought into the gift buying process, and get them something they’re going to appreciate. I know, I know, most guys would rather have a root canal then go shopping for wedding gifts, but this is just one of those things you have to do. The boys in your band will appreciate it. And hey, you know what? If they don’t then they’ll just pawn it for cash. Hey, they’re guys!
